When Shelina Janmohamed, an Oxford-educated Muslim dwelling within the effervescent ethnic mixture of North London, opted for the normal “arranged” path to discovering a associate, she by no means suspected it'd be the adventure of her life.
Through ten lengthy years of matchmaking buxom aunties, numerous mismatches, and outrageous courting mess ups, Shelina discovers extra approximately herself and her religion. alongside the way in which, she learns that usually being real to her faith skill hard culture, whereas readers examine a lot approximately Islam that could shock them.
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